Thursday, December 15, 2016
But here I sit, in a country that doesn't celebrate Christmas, and it's my favorite time of the year. I'm not sure what to do with that yet. Because we sold everything before we came, all of my Christmas decorations were sold right along with everything else. I didn't realize that that was going to be a problem, thinking I would just pick up new stuff when I arrived in country. However, we found out that the country doesn't celebrate it. What do I mean by that? Well - it's two-fold. The first, the primary African culture here doesn't celebrate it, so there's that. And secondly, the church does not celebrate it. I've talked with a lot of pastors since I've been here in respect to that, and have received varying reasons behind that. The primary reason is that they believe celebrating a day that is not really Christ's birthday, along with all the peripheral decorations, etc. is offensive. There are a few exceptions - and the little Baptist church we attend is one of them. But, for 95% of the churches here, December 25th is just another day.
I love Christmas. I love everything about it. I love people getting together, I love Christmas parties, I love candle light worship services, I love hearing Christmas music in the mall, drinking hot cocoa in the cold, sitting in front of a fire place, decorating my house, seeing lights around the neighborhood, hearing Christmas music on the radio, every store decked out in lights, cutting down a Christmas tree, and just living in the season as we read our daily Advent and prepare our hearts for the coming of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. For me, all the things around Christmas all help lead my heart to that incredible celebration of the birth of the most important person to ever have lived. That may sound superficial and materialistic to many. I don't apologize for it - every time I see a Christmas display, I think of Jesus. Every time I hear a Christmas song while out and about, I think of Jesus. Every time I see lights and decorations, I think of Jesus. For me, it's a time to say a prayer, and give glory to Him who is the Highest.
Even in Honduras, where Christmas is a huge event, although I was typically sweating on the day, there still were people all over who decorated for Christmas, Christmas programs at the schools, the mall was decked out to the max, they had bands playing music at the mall, and lights and displays around town. Here? Almost nothing. So, in my attempts to make it feel a little like Christmas, I did the best I could with what I had. Anyone who has come over to my house during Christmas would look around my house now and know how bare it looks.
I am making my cookies, and going to a gathering this weekend, and am trying to enjoy this season through the sweat of 95 degree days. With no Christmas tree, no presents to unwrap, and no kid here to celebrate with, Christmas day is going to be a quiet event at the Pettengill house - just the two of us, with a city closed down, the streets empty, and no one around us celebrating. A strange thing indeed.
Friday, December 9, 2016
|My awesome class|
As I am concluding teaching my first seminary level class on the subject it has become more and more apparent as to why this is the case. I will only speak of the country I am living in, because that is as far as my personal knowledge goes. I have read more books over the last few months about the subject, so have become a lot more educated about HIV/AIDS in Africa, but my personal experience with it only covers this little country.
My first day of class I wanted to explore what the myths surrounding HIV were in this country. So I made up "sticky" notes that had a combination of true and false statements, and asked the students to place them up on the board under each category so I could get a feel for what my students thought. This is the list I came up with, and their responses next to each statement (I have put the actual answer next to it)
o - in Africa, more men are infected with HIV than women - their answer: true; reality: this is false
o - in Africa, more women are infected with HIV than men - their answer: false; reality: this is true
o - You can look at a person and know they have HIV/AIDS - their answer: true; reality: false
o - The number one way HIV in transmitted is at the barber or manicurist - their answer: true; reality: there is no documented case of HIV being transmitted via manicurist instruments (other diseases, yes, but not HIV)
o - Witch doctors can curse you with HIV - their answer: true
o - You can have HIV and your test can come up negative (window of infection) -their answer: false; reality: true
o - HIV/AIDS is the same thing - their answer: yes; reality: no (HIV is the virus that causes AIDS)
o - mosquitoes can infect you with HIV - their answer: yes; reality: no
o - there is a cure for HIV - their answer: yes; reality: no
|Some of my students diligently working on an in-class assignment|
This was a great way to start the class, because I could immediately counter the myths, teach them the realities of the disease, and educate them on prevention and methods of transmission. I can't say this went over easy - it was a much heated conversation, and took a lot of convincing, showing of evidence, and showing statistics before people started to come around and believe it.
I was, however, still worried about the overwhelming statistics of HIV/AIDS related deaths in a country where testing and medication is free. And I found out the reasons why. 1 - sex education is considered a taboo in this country. It simply isn't discussed in the home, in church, or anywhere for that matter. 2 - the huge stigma that continues to be attached to this disease, people are ashamed, and don't want to be seen going to the hospital to get their medication. 3 - polygamy is an accepted cultural norm.
The thing I continued to discuss when my students were getting frustrated was that this was not something that could be changed in a day, in a few months, or even a few years. These were cultural norms that were going to take a generation to change, but that did not alleviate the necessity that we start NOW, and start with THEM in THEIR churches. That it was our job to break the cycle and to be part of the solution. So, I challenged each of my students to talk to their children, to start programs in their churches, and to be active and vocal in their communities.
We, as North Americans, as people of a completely different culture, and shake our heads in wonder as to why people believe what they believe. But I ask you to step back, and consider your surroundings, your resources, and remember where we came from in the early stages of this disease. It took a lot of public health education to help everyone have a better understanding of this disease, and here, in Africa, we still have a long way to go.
One of the final activities I had my students do was to give a bible study on key verses that I provided them with. They were required to tie in the biblical truths with HIV/AIDS outreach, and as a church body. The results were incredible! As the last student gave their bible study, I stood up in front of the class and said, "Remember how, on day one of this class you couldn't 'see' how HIV/AIDS was in the bible?! Do you see now?!" To which I received a resounding YES, accompanied with applause, hooting and hollering, and grins all around the class.
|Jonas giving a bible lesson and incorporating HIV/AIDS into it|